Tuesday, 13 November 2012

It's a Gender Thing

There have been many studies that show that men tend to perform better than women on space relations tests.  The practical domestic impact of a facility with space relations is that you can get more dishes in the dishwasher and fit more luggage into the car.

In our household, the gender profile is reversed.  C is the main dish-doer (I do all of the cooking) and will often tell me that the dishwasher is full.  I'll move a few things around and, hey-presto, it will be half full again.  C grumbles about my dish re-stacking, but, let's face it, it means a lot less hand washing.

I have always loved making things fit together, and, more than anything, having appropriate places with the right sized compartment to put things.  Which has led us to our very first furnishing argument about the new house.

We will have a garage.  C will be cycling to the station.  I will be cycling along country paths.  Miss A, our nearly-three-year-old, will be cycling anywhere that we let her.  Before we know it, ItsyBoo, our 9 month old, will also have a bike.  For those counting along at home, that's four bikes.

I want a bike rack, so we can neatly stack our bikes along the wall and avoid the garage becoming a glorified bike shed with tangled handlebars and pedals creating an obstacle course for the unwary.  C thinks a rack is a waste of time and we should just prop the bikes up and hope for the best.

I may have to give in on something else (bye bye, my little chicken coop), but I will have neatness!

6 comments:

  1. Just wait until the tangle of bikes makes him late for the train one morning, and he'll see that organization leads to consistency, and that is generally preferable in a pinch.

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  2. It's a good idea, I would just have to live through a tiny bit of howling angst...

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  3. I too have read this "studies" yet I have seen time & time again many women out shining many men in the Organization Space area and packing. When I was a kid we moved every 6 months to a year (military brat). My Mother did ALL the packing and unpacking, for my Dad was Horrible at it. And where my husband can pack a suitcase well, he seems to be at a loss at utilizing space within anything larger than a suitcase! So hang in there for your better use of Organization Space!
    Laura Easterling

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    1. Believe me - it's not a battle I'm going to use. I know that stuff that's not well organised / easily accessible doesn't get used. :)

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  4. The main row in our house revolves around my rubbish dishwasher packing skills. C, you have my sympathies lol x

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  5. In our house, Mike is definitely the better organizer. I manage, but his Tetris abilities far outstrip mine.

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